Financial Planning

Is it a Need? Or Just a Want?

April 22, 2026 Glenn J. Downing, CFP® - Founder & Principal, CameronDowning Glenn J. Downing, MBA, CFP® 3 min read
Is it a Need?  Or Just a Want?

When There’s More Month than Money

The foundation for any sort of financial planning begins with cash flow management. Income − expenses = dollars available to be invested toward future goals. We’ve worked with people from all walks of life who have cash flow issues, including those with very high incomes. If there’s no money at the end of the month to allocate toward goals, only two choices: Increase income or cut expenses.

To frame the thinking here, I challenge clients to separate out necessary spending from discretionary spending. Necessary spending is just that: what must I spend to house myself, feed myself, clothe and groom myself, and get back and forth from work. Bare bones, in other words.

The exercise I bring to my readers then is this: Let’s look at every expenditure you’ve made in the last several months. Now sort them: necessary or discretionary. Here’s a basic list – you may disagree with my categorization, but that’s the point:  to think the issue through of what’s necessary vs. discretionary.

Necessary – a Need

Discretionary – A Want

Rent/Mortgage

Landscaper

Electric bill

Housekeeper

Water bill

Exterminator

Homeowner’s Insurance

Life Insurance

Property tax

Disability insurance

Association fee

Tuition

Mobile phone

Children’s activities

Home WIFI

Lessons/tutoring

Car payment

Restaurant meals

Gasoline

Snack food

Sunpass

Entertainment

Groceries

Adult beverages

Minimum debt payments

Cigarettes and tobacco products

Daycare

Gym membership

Clothing

Sporting goods

Prescription drugs

Gifts

Basic toiletries

Dry cleaning

Haircuts

Dress shirt laundry

Books

Online subscriptions (Netflix, etc.)

Print subscriptions (NY Times, etc.)

Pet food and pet expenses

Travel and vacations

Boats/boating expenses

Golfing

Tattoos

Designer anything

Hair coloring

Manicure/pedicure

Land Line

Recreational vehicles

Second/additional vehicle

Charitable giving

Is it Really a Necessary Expense?

This list has some concessions to modern life, as you can see. I’m listing mobile phone and home WIFI as necessities, since many people are able to and do work at least partially from home. Do you have any other entries for the list?

The vast majority of people, if they stuck to the necessities and some of the discretionary spending, can make their budgets balance. So I leave it to my readers: if you’re not saving enough, scan down the discretionary column, and see what you can live without to have money to save to achieve your financial goals.

And it isn’t even so much a matter of doing without as it is substituting one thing for another. An evening at home with good friends and a deck of cards can be much more pleasurable than an evening out at an entertainment venue, and much less costly. A book from the library reads just the same as one purchased. A generic handbag holds the same stuff as a designer bag.

If that still doesn’t work, and you just cannot free up investable funds, then you’ve most likely got some bitter medicine to take, and that’s best done in one big gulp: sell the car; sell the boat; make the hard decisions you already know you need to make.

Want to learn more?  Check out Live Below Your Means.

Glenn J. Downing, CFP® - Founder & Principal, CameronDowning
Glenn J. Downing, MBA, CFP®
Fiduciary Financial Planner · Cameron Downing · Miami, FL

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